You haven’t bothered to read my recent post on haters, have you? You should. Take every point to heart.

BTW, if every sex worker and every client all over the entire world was outed, there would be like 5 people left who wouldn’t be a provider/client.

Larry,

“Or did you just become unchristian on your own without any help from anyone else?”

Well-put.

XX

I really feel sorry for you for having to grow up and/or live in such a repressed, strict, inhibited atmosphere that nutured your mind that spews out such hate. If your husband and/or boyfriend utilizes(ed) the services of a sex worker, then that is his fault; deal with him and not some person who is not at fault. If he utilizes(ed_ the services of a sex worker because he is unable receive what he seeks at home, then that is your fault; go to a professionally trained psychologist together with your mate to solve your relationship problems.

Until you know the reason each and every sex worker in your particular area (city, county, state) made the decision to beome a sex worker, do not make blanket statements that do not have any validity. It could be that they are in it for the income or because they really like sex and are able to earn income from a job that they really enjoy.

Sorry that you are having trouble with your sex life. FYI; there are upscale escorts that are advertising yearly rates of between $500,000 and $1,500,000 just for being a companion and offering a sensual and erotic lifestyle to another individual. Has your husband and/or boyfriend offered you anywhere close to those amounts to unclinch your legs and mouth? If not, maybe you should consider your options instead of being stuck in a loveless, lifeless relationship. Have you made the choice to be a celibate person? Which I really hope not is not the case because you are really missing out on a tremendous amount of pleasure.

Do you belong to that cult in Kansas that attends the funerals of soldiers that were killed while serving this country? If so, the whole lot of you are absolutely not reading the same Bible I am or you are only reading the passages that certifiable, psychotic leader of that cult is allowing you to read. Or did you just become unchristian on your own without any help from anyone else?

Abosolutely, perfectly put. Thank you.

XX

I’m not a sex worker. In the context of that community, I’m a “civilian.”

However I *am* an ex-submariner, who served on active duty in the U.S. Navy for a number of years. I earned my dolphins, went on patrols, and did the other stuff that submariners do. It’s 95% boredom, 4% excitement, and 1% terror, even in peacetime. The sea does not forgive mistakes.

So when I read something by an author who claims to be a submariner but who pulls dumb-ass boners, I’m … critical. If he talks about the reactor “going critical” as if that’s a bad thing, I’m … super-critical. You get the gist, I’m sure.

There are people who envy those who do dangerous things. Out of envy, some of these people pretend to be one of them. Some buy police uniforms and carry little flashing-light “bubbles” that can go on the roof of their cars, so they can pretend to be cops. Some buy military medals that are awarded for acts of heroism, so they can pretend to be heroes.

And they are bitterly resented by many of the people who *really* do (or have done) those dangerous things.

And perhaps some of them pretend to be sex workers, online. Where “no one can tell that you’re a dog.”

Such poseurs are often very convincing, very articulate. They may be very bright. They may themselves resent having lives that did not turn out to be as dangerous and exciting as the ones they envy. Doesn’t justify what they’re doing; it just makes it harder for the rest of us to figure out what they’re doing.

It also doesn’t justify violence toward the poseurs, or threats of violence (of any kind of violence).

But it does explain (and, I think, justify) the strong feelings that the real-deal people have, about the posing.

My two-cents, from a “civilian” who doesn’t like poseurs either.

– RunSilent RunDeep