My sweetheart is a former sheriff’s deputy. He doesn’t know about this (we’re “on a break” in the relationship right now) but he mentioned that one of the reasons he quit the force is that he hates the way cops think.

I really think a lot of these cops are spending their time satisfying their prurient desires. Between the rush from the abuse of power and the fact that sex is involved….

Nice to hear your comments! I’m so sorry you were busted. It’s a ridiculous waste of police effort and certainly ruins lives needlessly.

Indeed, I’ve found that men who pay are for more respectful than men who don’t pay. One of the many great secrets about this work that no one ever believes until they see it for themselves.

Stay strong.

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I quit because I was the victim of a police sting. The female officer was trying to tell me that I was the victim of my clients. Odd that I didn’t feel victimized – sex work helped me feel desired (I’m middle aged, incidentally) and I also found that the men who saw enough value in my sexuality to put out cash were far more respectful of me than the ones who wanted “free” sex.

I’m going to court tomorrow, it will be interesting to see how things go.

Why don’t you read the post on the very front of this blog first? Keeping something illegal does NOT help the people involved. You should know this.

You should also realize that the problem of sexual trafficking isn’t a problem of prostitution, it’s a problem of poverty and exploitative humans.

There are NOT 27 million sexually-trafficked people in the world (unless you want to give me real evidence of this). There are, however, many millions of people trafficked for domestic work and labor — those numbers are still consistently far higher than sexual trafficking numbers. Right now in Singapore, I can almost assure you the bigger numbers of trafficking victims here are Indonesian day laborers and Malaysian maids.

And more people than you think choose prostitution to put food on their table. It doesn’t matter if they make lots of money or merely survive — if it’s their choice, it’s their choice. Women have DIED to defend their choice of work (the recent protests in Cambodia come to mind).

So again, read what I said on this post:
http://www.texasgoldengirl.com/afterhours/dec-17-red-umbrellas/

The illegal status of my work in the US does a lot more damage than infringing on my right to make my choices about my own body. And yes, I have rights. As a human I most certainly do. No one should be allowed to take those rights away simply because of my choice of work.

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