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[...] media and a sex worker – After Hours| random discourse from a retired escort “The horrors that sex work supposedly does to one’s soul did not happen to me with my sex work. It’s happening now by the mainstream media. I’m being treated in ways I would never tolerate from a client.” (tags: sexwork media women sexism feminism men assholes books bullshit hypocrisy doublestandard) [...]
“The horrors that sex work supposedly does to one’s soul did not happen to me with my sex work. It’s happening now by the mainstream media.”
No kidding! One of the most painful things about being an escort has to do with the way society hates and shames and blames us. The media only represents that mindset. You are brave for being out there trying to set the record straight. Thank you for that!
Brave or stupid, I haven’t decided which. Willingly submitting one’s self to abuse doesn’t indicate sanity.
In all seriousness though — thank you for the support, Emilie.
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[...] Media and a Sex Worker (from After Hours) [...]
Your experiences reflect in part the media’s ability in general to seize upon some topic be it a natural disaster, economic news, or in your case, work as an escort and tout its newsworthiness provided that the media is able to make whatever it is fit into a particular “established” narrative. One could argue that a similar type of process frequently occurs when it comes to acceptable gender roles. Unfortunately a woman who embraces her sexuality in whatever form does still make some people nervous, regardless of the gender of the person.
As one of the other comments mentioned you are brave and should be commended for your efforts.
It has been quite some time since I visited your site, but I saw the interview on Bill O’Reilly this evening … just wanted you to know, … I thought you did a great job, handled yourself quite well and you looked great too!!! Good for you.
BAS,
Thank you! I did better than I thought I would too. It was a confidence boost, though I have watched it and watching myself on TV is very strange and unnatural.
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Alex,
Thanks for the support.
I realize I’m a quick fad, a news story that will quickly fade. Everyone forgets this is a daily reality for many, many people. Oh well, if it helps sell books in the interim…that’s good. I may open some minds along the way — even better.
Sexual women do make people uncomfortable; which is ridiculous given how almost everything in this society functions on the premise of having sex with a woman.
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Holy shit were you really on O’Reilly?? I just saw Callie Simms mention it on Twitter. As I said there: you have some major ovaries.
Still blown away by this.
Amber,
Yes, I was on O’Reilly. You need to subscribe to my newsletter, Amber! It was also on my Amazon blog and the Latest News section of the book’s site. Though honestly I didn’t publicize it much because I didn’t think too many people would care.
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Oh you underestimate yourself!
Seriously, MAJOR respect to you for doing that… just wow.
I will subscribe to your newsletter post-haste!
Amanda – I called your 800 number to order Book One but got the answering machine so I downloaded the form and ordered snail mail requesting you sign my copy. You might not believe this but I think exactly like you do. We’re kindred spirits. That aside you’re carrying on extremely important work that must be continued. Never quit! – Scott
Okay I think I must be braindead… I can’t find the newsletter. :\
Amber,
A big deal to me does not automatically = a big deal to anyone else. So no, I really didn’t think anyone would be impressed by O’Reilly or watch it. I’ve done things before that I thought were impressive which made zero ripple, so I figured this was simliar — something only I cared about (and the few people close to me).
Course, you have been a long-time supporter, so a sincere thanks for your compliments.
Newsletter sign-up is on the home page. Though I think this site re-design is very pretty, I’m not entirely sure I made the right decisions as to putting what where.
Scott,
Thank you! The call-in number operates during business hours on Central time. On the other hand, my fulfillment center was out to lunch for all I know. Sorry about having to order slowly. I’ll let them know to expect your order and get you a signed copy.
Thank you so much for supporting me. Your feedback on the book is welcome, too.
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Since I brought it up … what is your thoughts about Mr. O’Reilly’s interview??
To be honest, I thought he was fairly mild mannered and respectful considering the topic, if I remember correctly, he even gave you a compliment at one point. It would have been nice if he had allowed you to elaborate more, but again, considering the topic, I wouldn’t have expected it! Not on his show!!
Saw you previously on FOXNEWS as I was up late one evening and I caught them discussing your book on “RED EYE”. They showed the book and gave you about 30 seconds of their style of commentary … I forget who was on the show! Did you see it?
BAS,
O’Reilly was far more mild than I thought he would be. In fact, he was a little boring. I came in expecting to fight tooth and nail but I’ve had more difficult radio interviews. I wish I’d been more agressive in pursuing my points — I was very prepared. But I’m too polite and don’t talk over other people. Guess I’ll get over that someday.
On the other hand, it was nice not to be (verbally) kicked around. Can’t complain there.
Yes, have seen the Red Eye short (without sound). I don’t even want to hear what they have to say, frankly.
One thing I find amusing is that FOX sure likes talking about sex workers.
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Congrats !!!!! First on the radio show…(he was a putz for not letting you get a word in edgewise…grrrrrrrrrrrr……..) Second, moving on to Book 2!!
I have your first book, the one published way back in 2006……I got yours when I first started this business, in August of 2007.:)
I’m looking forward to the next one!
Alexa Hampton Stone
Alexa,
Thank you! I love it when a real reader comments.
I’m looking forward to FINALLY getting #2 out. Tyepsetting is done, I just have to pay for printing. And it’s done! Yay!
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O’Reilly is a huge deal & now I feel like an idiot for not signing up for your newsletter… but will do so right now.
xo ~ casey
Casey,
You’re okay. Never worry.
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Keep up the good work. We need more people out there telling the truth. there are so many men out here who think they can buy anything. They can not buy your sole, only you can give it away and It’s up to us where it goes. we all make mistakes and feel we are trapped in those mistakes. But it is not true evil makes you feel no one will ever love you or respect you because of where you have been. That’s just the evil fear evil one’s have placed on you to control you and distroy you. the ones that love you want the bes for you and be on your side when thing are at there worst. Love is something few people understand becouse is not the way most of us first choose. The lucky one’s have faced the evil and learned to live with out it some of us even learn to love ourselves and become wise enough to help others. I see you made it and if you ever need a friend just call on me I will do what I can.
Dale,
Thank you for your support. I’m in a much better place now than when I wrote this. It was a tough year.
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