Comments on: just pay her http://www.texasgoldengirl.com/afterhours/pay-your-sex-worker/ random discourse from the original independent upppity educated angry international hobo activist backwoods-feminist escort Barbie and catalyst Tue, 21 May 2013 12:30:07 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Amanda Brooks http://www.texasgoldengirl.com/afterhours/pay-your-sex-worker/comment-page-1/#comment-465410 Amanda Brooks Sun, 27 Jan 2013 13:31:16 +0000 http://www.texasgoldengirl.com/afterhours/?p=1223#comment-465410 Tara -- Thank you! Book 3 will be out when it's out. Believe me, I won't be shy about announcing it! :) Common sense is very effective against wankers and thieves. Before you even see the guy, if something about him sends up a red flag, then trust your instinct and call if off. Always better safe than very, very sorry. When you're with the guy, get the money first. Again, if a red flag goes off, either leave quickly or get him out of there as fast as possible. Common sense and your instincts aren't the same thing but they're next door neighbors. Tara — Thank you!

Book 3 will be out when it’s out. Believe me, I won’t be shy about announcing it! :)

Common sense is very effective against wankers and thieves. Before you even see the guy, if something about him sends up a red flag, then trust your instinct and call if off. Always better safe than very, very sorry.

When you’re with the guy, get the money first. Again, if a red flag goes off, either leave quickly or get him out of there as fast as possible.

Common sense and your instincts aren’t the same thing but they’re next door neighbors.

]]> By: Tara http://www.texasgoldengirl.com/afterhours/pay-your-sex-worker/comment-page-1/#comment-458933 Tara Wed, 23 Jan 2013 16:49:46 +0000 http://www.texasgoldengirl.com/afterhours/?p=1223#comment-458933 Amanda- I have Books 1&2, and your advice is priceless! Please, please let me know the minute Book 3 comes out! So I can purchase from you! I know most screening is common sense, but still- us noobs are going into the biz worried. How effective will our Common Sense be against the wankers and thieves? Amanda- I have Books 1&2, and your advice is priceless!
Please, please let me know the minute Book 3 comes out! So I can purchase from you!
I know most screening is common sense, but still- us noobs are going into the biz worried. How effective will our Common Sense be against the wankers and thieves?

]]> By: Amanda Brooks http://www.texasgoldengirl.com/afterhours/pay-your-sex-worker/comment-page-1/#comment-305235 Amanda Brooks Wed, 05 Sep 2012 12:37:41 +0000 http://www.texasgoldengirl.com/afterhours/?p=1223#comment-305235 Lionel -- I, like most safety experts, discourage the use of actual weapons unless the person is very well-trained in them. There is too much risk of the weapon being turned against the victim. Yes, there are some girls who carry guns and knives. I'm not one of them and I strongly discourage anyone from carrying obvious weapons without extensive training. Many girls have taken self-defense classes, which is a much better (and hidden) weapon. The best weapons are always a) avoiding the situation in the first place or b) having the ability to think clearly and talk your way out of the situation. I think I've mentioned before that screening is to be covered in Book 3. You've asked a number of questions along these lines. Suffice to say, you've sent up red flags a long time ago. Lionel — I, like most safety experts, discourage the use of actual weapons unless the person is very well-trained in them. There is too much risk of the weapon being turned against the victim. Yes, there are some girls who carry guns and knives. I’m not one of them and I strongly discourage anyone from carrying obvious weapons without extensive training. Many girls have taken self-defense classes, which is a much better (and hidden) weapon. The best weapons are always a) avoiding the situation in the first place or b) having the ability to think clearly and talk your way out of the situation.

I think I’ve mentioned before that screening is to be covered in Book 3. You’ve asked a number of questions along these lines. Suffice to say, you’ve sent up red flags a long time ago.

]]> By: Lionel Williams http://www.texasgoldengirl.com/afterhours/pay-your-sex-worker/comment-page-1/#comment-304974 Lionel Williams Tue, 04 Sep 2012 18:41:01 +0000 http://www.texasgoldengirl.com/afterhours/?p=1223#comment-304974 Dear Ms. Brooks: I am sure in your upcoming books this is a chapter that you will chronicle thoroughly. Although with respect to weapons, you did discuss the use of mace but I am wondering would you also carry a knife as well or do you know those that do on the tier of providers that you work with? Also I am wondering so that you do not get in this situation in the future what different techniques do you and your colleagues use to verify clients? This would be a critical phase and chapter of your book because if this is done correctly it could weed out a lot of people that you wouldn't want to see. Also what would be a system that most workers would use so that they would have someone that they trust know where they are just in case they do get in to trouble? Dear Ms. Brooks:
I am sure in your upcoming books this is a chapter that you will chronicle thoroughly. Although with respect to weapons, you did discuss the use of mace but I am wondering would you also carry a knife as well or do you know those that do on the tier of providers that you work with? Also I am wondering so that you do not get in this situation in the future what different techniques do you and your colleagues use to verify clients? This would be a critical phase and chapter of your book because if this is done correctly it could weed out a lot of people that you wouldn’t want to see. Also what would be a system that most workers would use so that they would have someone that they trust know where they are just in case they do get in to trouble?

]]> By: Amanda Brooks http://www.texasgoldengirl.com/afterhours/pay-your-sex-worker/comment-page-1/#comment-303174 Amanda Brooks Wed, 29 Aug 2012 13:02:20 +0000 http://www.texasgoldengirl.com/afterhours/?p=1223#comment-303174 Natalie -- True. And I daresay those clients don't realize ALL WOMEN are worthy of respect. Natalie — True. And I daresay those clients don’t realize ALL WOMEN are worthy of respect.

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