11 Responses to “sex with coworkers”

1. PJ Says:
   
   December 31st, 2007 at 9:57 am

   If she didn’t want to go out with you again after a one night stand it was because you were a bad lay.

   
   
2. Amanda Brooks Says:
   
   December 31st, 2007 at 4:31 pm

   Ha! Yes!

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3. Allison Says:
   
   January 10th, 2008 at 8:51 pm

   You fucked her, right? And, she reciprocated (I think), right?

   So what!!

   I don’t mean to be rude (or ‘insensitive’) but GET OVER IT! Go fetch!!

   
   
4. Amanda Brooks Says:
   
   January 11th, 2008 at 8:56 am

   I think men are behind the curve on this one. And steadily losing ground.

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5. Dating Rules Says:
   
   August 19th, 2008 at 4:44 pm

   Good Day EXpert, what entice you to post an article on sex with coworkers – After Hours| random discourse from a retired escort? This article was extremely interesting, especially since I was searching for thoughts on this subject last Tuesday.

   
   
6. Lee Says:
   
   January 1st, 2009 at 10:46 am

   Ha, ha. Great answer.

   But if he had had sex with a sex worker, he never would have run into this problem.

   
   
7. Amanda Brooks Says:
   
   January 2nd, 2009 at 9:44 pm

   Lee,

   Exactly. But he’s also probably the kind of guy who thinks “I don’t have to pay for it.”

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8. Harold Fellowes Says:
   
   April 29th, 2009 at 10:00 pm

   Sadly, too many men are stupid when it comes to pussy. They immediately assume there was a connection, that she really liked it, and that somehow there is now a claim.

   My Dad told me, more than 40 years ago, to get my head out of my ass and rather than assume you are the only one she is fucking, assume if she will fuck you, she will fuck anybody. This was back before birth control pills were common. Sex was also a bit less common, sadly, although oral and manual sex was chugging right along. (PS– Want a really good handjob, get it from a woman over 50.)

   The reality is that too many men have really outdated “romantical” ideas about sex. Others treat all women as if there was something morally wrong with them. The reality is somewhere in the middle, just like it is with most men.

   Times have changed. Slavery was outlawed in the US a LONG time ago. No one owns any part of anyone else.

   
   
9. Amanda Brooks Says:
   
   April 30th, 2009 at 5:43 am

   Harold,

   Beautifully said! You truly get it! Indeed, both sexes have similiar desires in their relations with others than society allows us to believe — it tends to get in the way and twist our natural desires to bad effect. Everyone would be so much happier with a little bit of self-honesty and disregarding what we’re taught about the opposite sex.

   Love the tip about getting handjobs! You need to pass that along to other men. It’s a juicy one!

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10. Hobbyist Says:
    
    October 10th, 2010 at 11:03 am

    I’m a serious guy and therefore used to take sex too seriously, so I can relate to what the guy is thinking. Some people are told to “save it” or to wait, etc. And yes, it’s stupid.
    In the end, the only reason why people feel that way is because they’re not having enough sex. Once they do, they realize that it’s not such a big deal for either party or some blood pact.

    “Paying for it” was part of the epiphany for me… The cash part is a clear signal that no unnecessary emotional baggage needs to be brought into the interaction.

    
    
11. Amanda Brooks Says:
    
    October 11th, 2010 at 5:28 pm

    Hobbyist,

    Very true. Nothing makes one more cranky than not getting any. I said somewhere on this blog: the one who gets laid the most, wins!

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